An auction i follow has a time cutoff, 8pm and the auction is over. Get your bid in with your max bid as well, it will auto bid for you up to your max if somebody keeps bidding you up. I don't mind this concept as i don't need to watch the auction every sunday night, just place what i'm willing to spend on an item. Don't get caught up in the crap of " they aren't going to out bid me"
I dunno. We are all different I guess. I'm usually only interested in getting a good deal on things I am interested in. I don't want to get a good deal or a bad one on a bunch of stuff. It all adds up. I just want to watch the auction and see what is going for the best prices and then snipe on those at the last minute. That way I can get one or two good items at a great price instead of ending up with 10 items at a "fair" price.
Another story - 40 years ago I was at a ducks unlimited fund raiser. They had some really cool hand carved original decoys being auctioned off. I figured I might be able to get one if it went for under 100.
Then my wife announced she was in labour. Holy Crap. "Can you wait till the auction is over honey?" Bad call. "Ok, Carol (lady at our table), here is my credit card. I want a decoy I'll pay up to 100 for it." Another bad call. One baby girl later, I learned that I owned 11 decoys and spent 900 for them. It was the first time I stared divorce in the face........