Elektrishun
Ultra Member
Ya who knows. I've taken it as best offer, but then the time frame or other offers are disclosed publicly.
I recently sold something where I put a price and OBO. I had people offer me lower and I said "no thanks not at this time, if I still have the item in 6 months I sure I will change my tune". I had two guys that said at the same time they would take the item at my price. I let them both know and one guy immediately offered more. I told the other buyer and he said fine sell it to him thanks. Funny thing is the guy that offered more than my asking price initially offered me less and I turned him away.
As the seller you had the high ground of a mini bidding war between 2 motivated buyers. The low OBO gotta go in a bidding war.
The guy I was dealing with had an item that has been posted for at least a month.
Here's how it went:
I communicated via Kijiji that I was interested. We agreed on a time and place (his place). He asked to let him know when I was coming. I did exactly that. I arrived at the time I said I would be there. No discussion of money, yet. I pull up, get out, and polite introductions are made. A firm handshake is given. We're off to view the item in his garage. Looks great. Time to dance. I say,"Let's make a deal. What do you want for it?"
He replies, "Well I paid $90 brand new so I think it's worth $50."
I counter, "How about $40?"
He replies, "No, it's worth $50."
I counter his no-counter with, "But in your ad you state 'Or Best Offer'. So my best offer is $40."
He kinda smiles and says, "OK, how about $45?"
Finally, we are dancing the classic he goes high, I go low, and then we meet in the middle! I say, "Sure. $45 but I don't have change." Because I don't. 50% my bad.
The smile disappears and he says, "I will go check if I do."
Off he goes. Checks his house and then comes back to check his truck. Nope, he doesn't have change either. Now the other 50% is his bad. So what does he do? He starts back-pedalling like he stepped in something and replies, "Well, how about $50?"
Time to put all the cards on the table and I reply, "I only have $60 or $40 and I am not paying $60. This item has been up for sale for at least a month. Do you want to sell it today or not?"
He replies, "Ok, $40."
Done deal. I pack it up and leave.
That is an example of how NOT to attempt sell something to an individual, who has communicated well, showed up on time, and even agreed to meet you in the middle during the offer/counter-offer when you post an ad that states "OBO". Then he proceeds to back out of the AGREED upon price by going back to his original offer. I could've gone to break a $20. Instead I played a little hard ball and it paid off...10 whole dollars😀
IMO the simple solution is if you want to sell something for $50 then ask for $60 or $65 with OBO in the ad. Give that room to haggle. If the buyer doesnt haggle then bonus to the seller for getting more $$$ than he expected. I believe most people want that feeling like they got a little deal. It's all psychological. When the smart seller comes down in price, to the price they actually want, then everybody wins. Buyer walks away thinking they got a deal and the seller gets the price they wanted.






