Oh I totally missed that part! My wife has no interests in machining, she's more of a buy it than make it kind of woman. Maybe one day I'll persuade her.
I have big hopes my daughter and son will find building and creating as satisfying as I do. My daughter is already fascinated by my 3d printers so fingers crossed.
Mine doesn't either. This all came out of a conversation she was having with my sister about all my useless machines. It's all documented in the thread I referred to earlier.
You have to use reverse psychology to make her think it is all her idea. It's not something you talk her into - that will never work.
I see it going a little like this.
Her - I really wish I could find a nice bowl for my jewelry.
You - you will never find one that's just what you want. Your standards are too high.
Her - what are you talking about? I'm just thinking something simple.
You - I didn't mean that honey, I just meant that you appreciate the little things more than most people do.
Her - well that's true. Besides, it would have to match the bathroom vanity counter.
You - well ya, that's why it's so hard to find. I do love how you have a knack for such things. I never could do that.
..... Insert several days of patience waiting for the perfect moment.
Her - why are spending so much time in the shop?
You - well I was trying to figure out how to make this bowl you want. Could you be a bit more specific?
Her - blah blah blah
You - I see. I don't think I could ever get that right. It would be so much easier if I could see in my mind what you see in yours. You are so much more artistic than I am.
Her - oh don't be so silly. Its really all very simple. Blah blah blah.
You - have you ever thought about making your own bowl? It would be inexpensive and it would be exactly what you want. All your friends would be so jealous.......
Her - I'm not going near those F$&=] %g machines of yours.
You - well, I would help you with it and best of all, it would be something that we could spend some time together doing.
I'm sure you get the idea.....