Now, if you add a WUT underneath your draw bar nut then you can hand turn the drawbar until it captures the collet. Keep turning until the drawbar snugs up. Then grab two wrenchs, one for the WUT and one for the draw bar and heave at it.
My mill drill uses a similar concept except the WUT (as you call it) is on top. But same difference. The WUT is used to stop the draw bar from turning, and the nut underneath it is used to draw the drawbar up and tighten the collet.
The issue on my mill is different. My problem is that I don't have enough hands. The WUT system would add yet another hand requirement. That's going the other way and making the problem worse. The brake on the mill eliminates the problem the WUT addresses.
But how do you hold an endmill in a loose collet at the same time as you hold the brake and tighten the drawbar?
I usually do this by holding the endmill and spindle with one hand and tighten the drawbar with the other. It takes a tight grip so I've cut myself on a sharp endmill more than once doing this. I have a similar problem using ER collets.
Sometimes I lock the spindle by engaging both the back gear and the dog clutch. But I'm always afraid I'll forget and strip some gears engaging the power.