When I had the SM9 I bought a 1.5-8 nut from a local nut and bolt store to use on the spindle for something I was making. When I went to thread it on the spindle it more or less just slipped over the spindle thread. Turns out the nut hole was 1.5 and then threaded. When I returned it the guy behind the counter said that's the way all threading works,,,,,,,ya right.
I won't mod the spindle but talk with Accusize and if they have no solution send it back and find a used plate to mod.
Do you have a chunk of something around to do a practice thread in? No point in goofing up a good piece until you get the sizing correct.
As to patience, you're retired, got somewhere else to be? lol