Hard disagree, keep the supply car running, if you kill your battery without getting the other car started, now you're both screwed.
I'm on SlowPoke's page.
If you kill the source battery it's an easy fix with a new battery. If you kill your alternator it's a much more difficult repair.
The right thing to do is connect up the batteries while supply car is running and wait a good few minutes before attempting to start, this will let the dead battery charge up a bit and get some temperature in it (applicable at very low temps), which increases your odds of starting.
Yup, that's the likely scenario. But not the only scenario. Sometimes the battery just dies with no voltage build. When this happens, the alternator can overload and the windings can be destroyed.
Killing an alternator isn't likely,
True. But this is one of those times when "isn't likely" isn't certain enough.
they can only deliver so much current until the voltage dips below your battery voltage at which point the battery is going to be supplying the bulk of the current.
This is one of those odd situations where the various circumstances can all line up against you. Alternators are typically rated for max current into a 13.5V load at various engine speeds. If the battery/system voltage is much lower than 13.5, the output current can skyrocket and damage the alternator. That's also why you shouldn't race the engine with a low battery.
If your entire system is weak to begin with when you're the supply car, don't offer to boost...you'll just cook your already weakened components.
Thats good advice. The problem is that most drivers don't know when their system is weak.
Besides, when a hottie needs a hero, not many of us really think that straight.......
Source: Doing my job developing engines that can operate at -60 in the cold room with regular real-world validation testing, and rescuing the odd hottie (and a few regular ugly people too) in my spare time.
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@slow-poke correctly explained, this is not a common failure. Probably less than 1 in 20. That's why most guys never experience it. But when it happens, it's much worse and more expensive than replacing a battery.