In my experience I would say push as hard as you like on your saws. The ideal situation is the weight of the saw is enough to dampen the kick from the teeth cutting but until you hit HEAVY saws the spring is one of the largest issues causing broken teeth, etc.
As none (probably) of us have saws that are true pneumatic or hydraulic powered, the next best thing is to put extra weight on the saw to stop kick back and adjust the downfeed accordingly, personally I wouldn't worry about the seals in the cylinders (were really not talking aboput a lot of force).
This should do two thing, one give enough force to stop the kick and two allow for a better cut quality and speed. Again until you hit true industrial saws you don't get the function of hydraulics or pneumatics and the cylinders you find on non 15,000 dollar saws have check valves, so they are more than willing to let the saw go back up.
The only real concern is putting too much weight and the saw beginning to twist or bend, which will be reflected in the cut.. in all honesty, if your stupid enough to put enough weight to permanently damage your saw be bending, you should be playing with 3d printers, plexiglass and hot glue and not machine tools.